Who am I?
Do you ever wonder who you are? I mean you know your name, where you were born, who your family members are etc but who are you?
I found myself thinking about this statement on the drive to work today. I am alot of things.
I think you can break the chain.....but you have to be willing to make the tough choices to do so.
I had to change everything about my history of growing up to be a better parent than I had. I had to work harder and smarter so I wasn't poor as an adult like I was as a child. I had to learn to love differently as an adult because love wasn't shown to me as a child. I even had to break away from most of my family to make these changes. It wasn't easy.....somedays I still struggle. I did it though. I am better then where I came from. I BROKE the chain. I was lucky enough to have AMAZING great grandparents. Although they passed away when I was ten it still gave me enough time to learn life can be good. Sure I made mistakes I still do. But I fight the good fight of life....and doing it right this time.
My only armor left is my weight......and this time......I'm determined to put down my armor.
I found myself thinking about this statement on the drive to work today. I am alot of things.
- Daughter (Granddaughter, Daughter-In-Law)
- Sister
- Mother
- Friend
- Lover
- Employee
- An EX (LOL)
I think you can break the chain.....but you have to be willing to make the tough choices to do so.
I had to change everything about my history of growing up to be a better parent than I had. I had to work harder and smarter so I wasn't poor as an adult like I was as a child. I had to learn to love differently as an adult because love wasn't shown to me as a child. I even had to break away from most of my family to make these changes. It wasn't easy.....somedays I still struggle. I did it though. I am better then where I came from. I BROKE the chain. I was lucky enough to have AMAZING great grandparents. Although they passed away when I was ten it still gave me enough time to learn life can be good. Sure I made mistakes I still do. But I fight the good fight of life....and doing it right this time.
My only armor left is my weight......and this time......I'm determined to put down my armor.